Is there any need for all this?

Hello,

I have been waiting in the wings reading the messages posted here with some interest. There appears to be plenty of honesty and plenty of feeling and certainly a central theme which you seem all to be able to appreciate. However I do feel you are being just a little harsh on matters of the heart. I am not sure you are coming at this from the correct angle. Love can be wonderous - you can have fantastic times with people. How else can you get to know someone so well unless you are closely invloved with them. You can create a respect, an unbreakable bond between two or more people. You can then find a nice flat together and then the real fairy tale begins - nights alone, walks on the beach, removing the hair from the plug for each other - bliss.

Then when you find yourself totally at ease with your relationship and more importantly yourself life can not be better. This is our purpose. Then all of a sudden you realise you despise this person totally and can not live with them so have to head off and get hammered in Bournemouth for 3 days as you cannot stand the sight of that stupid little picky annoying bitchy waste of space of a whore - what the fuck have I been doing with my life - what the fuck is going on - what the fuck. Your heart which is no longer yours is wrenched from your chest using a wooden soup spoon and slung aside like so many baby hamsters and you are left fucked up, jaded and unable to cope with any shit ever again. You trust no-one as they are all evil the bastards - you are all a bunch of fuckers. Fuck it I take it all back, I agree with your every collective word as I am living breathing proof that Love is a Cunt.