Tree.

Due to the onslaught of insane females that have bombarded the message board as of late, I think it's necessary for someone to continue with yet another example of dear Tree's insanity. I think it's utterly cowardly to have your friends batter an outlet for someone's emotions and frustrations, especially when it embodies the epitome of hypocrisy. I think it's only fair to return the same lunacy.
I wrote this email to Tree ages ago. It's a return to a post that she had left on LIAC that she has since deleted. Probably a good idea.


Tree,

While I appreicate the time you spent in attempting to suss out the issues regarding the possible misconceptions between us, I am not inclined to forgive you, or befriend you, or rework our never existent friendship to make you feel better.
It's nice that you want to sort things out with me, but unfortunately after reading your email and your responses on LIAC, there really isn't anything to sort out. I think you're a twofaced coward and exist to make people on the internet fall in love with you. I also think that's pathetic and quite stupid, but that's just my humble opinion. It should mean nothing to you.

There was no miscommunication or misunderstanding regarding my role in your, "falling out" with JIB because I had no role in it. Your relationship with JIB ended because of whatever problems existed between the two of you. Yes, it was a bad idea for you to start talking to me when you were a grief stricken pyschobint and I'm not going to play stupid to your apologies regarding your actions, because you knew exactly what you were doing.
How can you tell me that your communication with me was a mistake when you had the same communication with numerous other ex girlfriends? How can you tell me that you wish you never had spoken to me about the situation, but not feel bad about the other conversations with the other women? You make no sense Tree and I'm not privvy to your victim complex like everyone else seems to be.
You knew that my relationship with JIB had gone sour and you took advantage of it to fuel your anger regarding your broken relationship with him. You needed a reason to get angry and you found it in me. You did a great job of making my anger concerning JIB explode all over again. The only difference in all of your conversations was that the outcome of our chats didn't end the way you wanted it to and that pissed you off. I had rekindled my friendship with JIB and you were watching yours go down the toilet. THAT has never been my fault, and never will be my fault and fuck you for even considering it to be.

You were never the reason why my friendship with JIB exists and you never will be. I'm not surprised that your insecurity made you so alarmed regarding the "rebirth" of our relationship. I am surprised that you think I used our "conversations" to regain that friendship. I didn't talk about you to convince him to be my friend again. The only thing I said to him was, "Tree's been talking to me. I don't like it. It's fucked up, and I wanted to tell you incase it got out of hand." And that was it. And then it was my fault that your life turned to crap.
I didn't hurt you Tree, you hurt yourself. You decided to talk to me, you sat and listened to my stories and you wanted to hear them. Don't tell me that you believe it was never my intention to hurt you or JIB because my existence in your life was completely innocent. This is YOUR mess, not mine, not JIB's, YOURS.
From what I can tell of you, you've done an excellent job at making yourself believe that your mistakes are anything but your fault. Unfortunately, most people won't tell you that you've fucked up because they don't want to see you cry. I however, don't give a crap if you go blind from crying. It makes no difference to me.

Do not feed me crap about how we equally shared our hatred for JIB. You went looking for an outlet, you found it and you pushed all the buttons to have me spew out anger. You took advantage of me. DO NOT flower it up to make yourself feel better. You knew the situation better than I did and you fucked with me and now I sincerely dislike you for it.
Your whole email was just a giant boo-hoo story about how you screwed things up for yourself. You basically told me that everything I said was correct and you've not only lied to me about your actions, but everyone else on LIAC as well.
It was never a, "he said, she said" sort of thing, it has been a, "What tree says" sort of thing and I'm sick of it. Just because JIB doesn't havethe bollocks to hurt you with the truth doesn't mean I don't.

It's time for you to take responsibility for your actions Tree. How can you willingly say that I was the fuel to end a friendship and not expect a lash back? I know you through LIAC, and you know that I'm a gigantic bitch. You should have known better than to open your mouth to spout garbage and not expect anything in return. Obviously LIAC was going to hear about it.

I have no desire to talk to you, or about you ever again.

Grow the fuck up, own your mistakes and stop messing around with decent people's existences with your stupid insecurities.