Foul temptress: Hello.
I was pleasantly surprised at the volume of comments on my last post, despite its overall poor quality. Some quick points, since I have no news on the situation:
I do not believe that men and women can truly be friends, especially at my age (25) and with my relationship status (happily single). It's true: One or the other of the pair wants to fuck the other one. Sometimes the friends want to fuck each other and cuntly disaster strikes. Yes, there are occasions where men and women seem to get along quite nicely, where it seems like a big happy family of brothers and sisters. But peel back a couple of layers and you'll find all sorts of nasty fuck-urges swirling around, I guarantee it. Not necessarily huge, overwhelming desires, but definite thoughts.
I am quite sure that Co-worker wants to fuck me in some barely suppressed corner of his gigantic brain. However, I am also quite sure that he is very much in love with his girlfriend, and he realizes that I am not worth losing her.
I can't say I blame him. She's smart, cute and ambitious, and they've been friends for the better part of ten years (dating for two). I'm smart and cute, but horribly confused and have only known him for about six months. So however much he likes me, or wants to play with my hooha, there's no way I could ever compare with this woman he's built a solid relationship with.
They're talking about buying a house, f'chrissakes. With a yard. I can't even fathom such a thing.
Anyway, I'm trying to forget about it. I've done the pining-after-a-friend thing (for two years, actually) and it was a colossal waste of time. I don't intend to do it again.
C0-worker is very special, and I know I'll never meet anyone like him again, but it's not going to happen for us. The sooner I accept this, the sooner I can move on to my next retarded romantic imbroglio.
In fact, I went on a date last week with a new boy. It was fine.
I do not believe that men and women can truly be friends, especially at my age (25) and with my relationship status (happily single). It's true: One or the other of the pair wants to fuck the other one. Sometimes the friends want to fuck each other and cuntly disaster strikes. Yes, there are occasions where men and women seem to get along quite nicely, where it seems like a big happy family of brothers and sisters. But peel back a couple of layers and you'll find all sorts of nasty fuck-urges swirling around, I guarantee it. Not necessarily huge, overwhelming desires, but definite thoughts.
I am quite sure that Co-worker wants to fuck me in some barely suppressed corner of his gigantic brain. However, I am also quite sure that he is very much in love with his girlfriend, and he realizes that I am not worth losing her.
I can't say I blame him. She's smart, cute and ambitious, and they've been friends for the better part of ten years (dating for two). I'm smart and cute, but horribly confused and have only known him for about six months. So however much he likes me, or wants to play with my hooha, there's no way I could ever compare with this woman he's built a solid relationship with.
They're talking about buying a house, f'chrissakes. With a yard. I can't even fathom such a thing.
Anyway, I'm trying to forget about it. I've done the pining-after-a-friend thing (for two years, actually) and it was a colossal waste of time. I don't intend to do it again.
C0-worker is very special, and I know I'll never meet anyone like him again, but it's not going to happen for us. The sooner I accept this, the sooner I can move on to my next retarded romantic imbroglio.
In fact, I went on a date last week with a new boy. It was fine.
posted by Kathleen | 2:45 am
Amen to that sister!
For that reason, i'll be moving in to a padded room, so I can no longer make any new "friends."
Splendid stuff, but I regret to say that your working together means that at some point he will play with your hooha and cunt everybody over.
I absolutely disagree.
Men and woman can be friends. In fact, I think two people of the same sex can never truly be compatible.
I lived with my best friend for six months after him and his girlfriend broke up. I had no desire to fuck him and I hope he never had one for me. We were like a brother and sister that got along all too well.
Either way, the thing that ruined our relationship was his stupidly jealous girlfriend. As much as I tried to befriend and as much as I tried to reassure her that my relationship with her lover was strictly plataunic, she just didn't GET IT.
Either way, I haven't spoken to him in half a year. I miss him terribly.
As for me being friends with woman... I have one female friend that I have kept in contact with over my twenty-two years of existence and I have only known her for 3 months. Count on me hating her in the next two.
It's not impossible to have a friend that you don't fancy - but it's never a deep relationship. However, it's impossible to have a best friend of the contrary gender that you wouldn't want to fuck.
OK. It's not completely impossible for a man and a woman to be strictly platonic friends. It's just exceptionally rare.
These unusual friendships are greatly enhanced when ALL PARTIES ARE ATTACHED - TO OTHER PEOPLE.
If someone involved is single, I'll bet you my Marc Jacobs kitten-heels that s/he is harboring a secret, soul-killing crush.
Agreed. I basically meant that any friendship that is deep on any level, will involve the urge to fuck 99% of the time - no matter how small the urge is, it's there.
We all like fuck. We all like fuck with people we like.
Unless they're rough.
Fucking right, JIB.
Mini-update: He emailed me this morning and said he missed me over the last few days. I was out of town for that glorious American tradition known as Thanksgiving.
Nobody ever misses me. This may be getting out of hand.