I'm Confused
So I just got this message from a girl I recently dated (that I really rather liked and have never tried to hurt):
"... Regarding desire i was so unattracted to you that had to close my eyes and think of someone else every time you touched me because otherwise i couldn't tolerate it." + a comprehensive personal attack on my character indicating she's always despised me.
This, coming from a girl that initiated our first kiss, has tried to have sex with me (I refused, as it was too soon for that), has wanted to phone-sex me and has gone down on me no less than three times (with no request, provocation or reciprocation).
Is she:
(i) Trying to be evil, but coming across as staggeringly childish?
(ii) More confused than fifty-three playing cards falling off a trolley in a well-lit house with nobody in it?
(iii) Transparently pissed off that I didn't find her attractive enough to warrant immediate and constant sex?
(iv) A shameless, typical slapper that would basically screw any random bastard, even if she doesn't like them (she was brought up in Essex, after all)?
My bets are on all four.
Why the fuck do people do things like this?
"... Regarding desire i was so unattracted to you that had to close my eyes and think of someone else every time you touched me because otherwise i couldn't tolerate it." + a comprehensive personal attack on my character indicating she's always despised me.
This, coming from a girl that initiated our first kiss, has tried to have sex with me (I refused, as it was too soon for that), has wanted to phone-sex me and has gone down on me no less than three times (with no request, provocation or reciprocation).
Is she:
(i) Trying to be evil, but coming across as staggeringly childish?
(ii) More confused than fifty-three playing cards falling off a trolley in a well-lit house with nobody in it?
(iii) Transparently pissed off that I didn't find her attractive enough to warrant immediate and constant sex?
(iv) A shameless, typical slapper that would basically screw any random bastard, even if she doesn't like them (she was brought up in Essex, after all)?
My bets are on all four.
Why the fuck do people do things like this?
posted by Juliet is Bleeding... | 9:56 am
Yep. Forgot that one.
Mentally unstable...leave her be
Yes, I agree she had some degree of mental instability. In fact, I told her the way she was acting now was insane - at which she laughed. Somewhat hysterically.
So I'll leave her to that.
And yes, the bit that beggared the most belief, was that she could engage in such blatant sexual advances without even fancying me.
I've never used a whore before, but I'm sure what I'm experiencing now must feel like the bit where the punter realises it's all faked and has to pay.
Punters pay up-front not afterwards. Not that I'd know, erm...
I'd go with the rebound reason someone said. Must've wanted screwing from the nearest guy - sorry to hear that was you, fella'.
At least you didn't put out like she did. Chalk it up to experience and move on, there's better than the likes of her about.
She's just projecting. The only person she really despises is herself, you're an innocent bystander in this one.
To the comment above: I'm not sure. We spoke for 3-4 hours every day for several months before she wanted to go out with me. One would think she'd have known what she was doing by then.
Unfortunately, she didn't.
There must be a reason for this sort of fuckedness... And it's one or some or all of the ones you listed.
I'm from Essex :( Not a slag though..
Please check what is in that bubbling pot on your stove.
Didums: I think people are perfectly entitled to give their opinions on what are - essentially and completely - facts.
And yep, NL: People are also perfectly entitled to hit on me :)
Though, of course, I think I'll leave it a while before I open up to a girl again. As per sodding usual.