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Wednesday, September 29, 2004

Girls that want to fuck, just to fuck

JulietIsBleeding's post highlights an important and sensitive issue:-

"... evolution ... promotes the shameless degredation of girls that want to fuck just to fuck."

I completely agree with Juliet's conclusion that this is ridiculous. How many men have you heard complaining that women "get too clingy" or "want too much commitment"?

Surely men want the girl they're sleeping with to like sex. And yet there's still this big social issue with girls that "do what men do" (traditionally, I mean). One possible reason for the transition (and the ever-growing percentage of "loose women" - no physical pun intended) is that women got God damn sick of playing the martyr.

I personally believe that in this day and age it's more of an individual issue than a gender one. There are plenty of women (I know a fair few) who can have sex without wanting any more from it. There are still others who feel like they're letting the guy have his way or letting him have her. This is a concept I've never truly understood. Surely you've had them as well?! I swear to God I enjoy sex as much as any man does, very possibly more so.

Women have physical needs just as men do. It's just that we've been indoctrinated with these stupid principles about a gender difference, when really we're all only human and it's a matter of personality rather than whether your sexual organs are external or internal.

In "Can't Hold Us Down", Christina Aguilera sings:

If you look back in history, it's a common double standard of society: the guy gets all the glory the more he can score, while the girl can do the same and yet you call her a whore

I seriously don't believe this to be the case anymore.

I think society has changed and there's almost been a role reversal. Not with *everyone*, because you can't categorise people like that, everybody's different. But the problem is the guy with the issues about his girl having been elsewhere, rather than with the girl having "done something wrong".

Men have it tough these days. They truly can't win. They're either players / bastards / fuckfaces / cunts, or they're gay oversensitive losers.

Striking a happy medium must be tough.

I've always believed anyway, that for any person (whether male or female), the number of people you've slept with is irrelevant as it only reflects the number of relationships that haven't worked out, i.e. the number of people that have fucked you over.

Except, of course, if you were the one doing all the fucking over.

In which case, you're a cunt.

Or maybe you just haven't found the right person yet.


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