Sharing.
"I love you."
"I love you too."
"Now you must tell me all your secrets, past endeavours. Indeed everything that you have done, thought or said since you could do any of those things. And you must tell me everything you do, think or say right now. And everything you are going to do, think or might say in the future. If you don't, how can you love me?"
"Get to fuck."
"You're a cunt"
"Most probably"
My point is this. I don't wish to know all there is about someone. I appreciate what they share with me, and trust that if they think I need to know, then they will tell. But I don't need or want to know all. And I WILL NOT share all about me. With ANYONE. Some of me is mine. Just for me. Not for public consumption. Do I make myself clear?
"I love you too."
"Now you must tell me all your secrets, past endeavours. Indeed everything that you have done, thought or said since you could do any of those things. And you must tell me everything you do, think or say right now. And everything you are going to do, think or might say in the future. If you don't, how can you love me?"
"Get to fuck."
"You're a cunt"
"Most probably"
My point is this. I don't wish to know all there is about someone. I appreciate what they share with me, and trust that if they think I need to know, then they will tell. But I don't need or want to know all. And I WILL NOT share all about me. With ANYONE. Some of me is mine. Just for me. Not for public consumption. Do I make myself clear?
Loud and clear
Communication is your friend, though your friend might not like the things you communicate.