love and affection

Do you know the 1976 classic "Love and Affection"? It builds slowly around the idea of having a good lover, leading to this

Little darling I believe you could
Help me a lot
Just take my hand
And lead me where you will
No conversation
No wave goodnight
Just make love
With affection

Is affection enough to get anywhere? Isnt that a bit aunty-ish, too tame? Or is it the pre-requisite for head-fucking (see below)? I have never met O, but when I do, will I still feel the way I do now? Which is extremely soppy:

I was half, not whole
In step with none
Reaching through this world
In need of one

Come show me your kindness
In your arms I know I'll find this
Woman, don't you know, with you I'm born again
Lying safe with you I'm born again